Selfishness

“The one who loves the least, controls the relationship.”

-Dr. Robert Anthony

I have found this quote to be particularly true this past month. Friends that don't care about you, but pretend to, are the ones that you spend your most time on. It's not usually time pleasantly spent, nor well spent, but it's there none the less. They are the ones that control your mood, how easily adjitated you get, and whether or not you'll have a good day. It's that hold that you can't explain, but can't stop.

So what do you do when you don't want to be controlled by that person??? Well, you can't make anyone love you any more then they do. (How many heartbroken people wish it weren't true!) So I guess there has to be a decision, to either put up with it or let the person go.

.....letting go is not so fun or romantic as it sounds....